Let’s face it, we’ve all fallen victim to sex myths at one point or another—those juicy, often whispered tales that can shape our expectations in the bedroom in the most fantastical, and sometimes, frustrating ways. But fear not! We’re here to separate fact from fiction, with a dash of humor and a sprinkle of science, to ensure your sex life is based on reality, not myth. Plus, we’ll show how Cake’s products can help you navigate these truths for a more fulfilling intimacy.
Common Myths and the Facts That Debunk Them
Myth 1: Lube is Only for Older Couples or Those with Issues
- Fact: Lube isn’t just for the “over the hill” crowd or when things get dry. It’s for everyone looking to enhance pleasure, reduce friction, and make sex more comfortable, regardless of age.
- Cake Natural Sex Lube – Perfect for anyone who wants to keep things smooth and enjoyable, no matter their age or health.
Myth 2: You Can’t Get Pregnant If It’s Your First Time
- Fact: Pregnancy can occur any time unprotected sex happens, first time or not. The myth likely comes from a misunderstanding of fertility and ovulation.
- Cake Silicone Sex Lube – Use it alongside proper contraception for safer, more enjoyable intimacy.
Myth 3: Men Always Want Sex More Than Women
- Fact: Desire varies among individuals, not by gender. Both men and women can have high or low libidos depending on numerous factors including stress, health, and relationship dynamics.
- Cake Star Sucker – A toy that both partners can enjoy, promoting exploration and mutual pleasure, debunking the notion of gender-specific desires.

Myth 4: Anal Sex Requires No Prep
- Fact: Anal play, like any other sexual activity, needs preparation to be safe and enjoyable, including lots of lube and communication.
- Cake Buzzy Butt – An anal toy designed to introduce anal play comfortably, emphasizing the need for prep.
Myth 5: Size Matters Above All Else
- Fact: While size can play a role, technique, emotional connection, and communication are far more critical for sexual satisfaction.
- Cake Toy Wonder – Enhances the experience regardless of size, focusing on comfort and pleasure.
How Understanding the Truth Can Improve Your Sex Life
Enhanced Communication: Knowing the facts leads to better conversations about needs and desires, debunking myths that might have held you back from expressing yourself.
Increased Comfort: Myths can lead to unnecessary discomfort or anxiety. Understanding that lube, for example, is for everyone can make intimacy more enjoyable.
Realistic Expectations: By ditching myths, you set realistic expectations, which can lead to more satisfying sexual experiences without the pressure of living up to false standards.
Cake Products to Enhance Intimacy and Debunk the Myths
- Cake Little Sucker: Debunk the myth that sex toys are only for solo play or that they’re only for one gender. This toy can be part of couple’s play, showing that sexual pleasure is for everyone.
- Cake Silicone Sex Lube: Perfect for those who need to understand that lube enhances sex at any age or stage of a relationship, debunking the myth it’s only for “older” couples.
- Cake Pocket Stroker: For those caught in the size myth, this product shows that pleasure can come in all forms, focusing on sensation over size.
By arming yourself with knowledge and the right tools from Cake, you can laugh off those myths, embrace the truth, and enjoy a sex life that’s based on science, comfort, and mutual joy. Here’s to debunking myths and enhancing your intimacy, one fact at a time!




















